Science of Abuses

Abuse...i e. " Ab + use "..."Ab"  here is an Art of blatant + use of words. Can we call it an art .. probably yes.It's really an art to deal with your mood. Someone abuses to calm himself, some to show the anger, some thinks it really helps them in personal life .But have you ever thought when was the first time you abused, what was that abuse and to whom you abused. How you felt after abusing?Did you start regretting ? 

Most of you will say that you felt bad and start regretting.Even you went to tell sorry to the person you abused .The person might have pardoned you. Now, your introduction to this art has started.No, you have started a journey from a cold watery mind to a short tempered hot watery mind.

Now, you must be thinking why I'm mentioning cold  water 💦 and hot water🔥. Before your introduction to abuses you were like cold water , long tempered guy, not reacting in a blatant way. You were having patience, a good temperament and a sweet tone in voice. Now you must be getting clarity why I have taken a example of cold water .We will do one experiment..you have to imagine the same .

Take a utensil full of cold water and another utensil full of hot water.We will consider the evaporation process as the patience .Now put them over a stove and ignite the flame. Wait for 5-10 mins. Now I want to know from you that in which container you will observe the evaporation process in a rapid way . You will say obviously it is the hot water container which will show a lot of turbulence as compared to cold water container. If you will leave the water on the stove for few more minutes then the water in the hot container will disappear faster as compared to the cold water container. Now the situations in our life act as fire 🔥.The person who abuses a lot are considered hot water containers.Whereas the person who never abuses are considered cold water container. Any situation takes more time to end the person who never abuses as compared to those who abuses .

Abuses cause anger, drains away your patience,ruins your social , professional and personal life.It is also not considered good for any Society where it prevails in any form.

The easiest way to cope from this habit is whenever you are thinking to abuse take the name of your god whosoever you follow or take the name of your favourite person whom you admire the most. Their name will stop you from getting agressive.

There is a saying that if you have a habit to smoke a cigarette and you want to leave this habit then try to drink a Cup of milk whenever in your mind a thought to smoke comes.